Becoming oneself is first beginning to realize who
we are, working in a dynamic of questioning how we interpret the world. Because
it is when we become aware of how we do it to "create" our suffering,
our fear, sadness, self-blame and self-guilt, pain ... then only we can work on
stopping creating them.
We will also gradually discover how our "Educators", “Society” and ”culture” have
conditioned us by imposing a framework of interpretation of realities around us.
Therefore we will gradually adjust our perception;
we will become more and more kind to ourselves, by discovering without a shame that
we have needs that are unique to us, understanding - in relaxation - the
causes of our behavior and our emotional mental attitudes.
Lately I have been questioning myself so much on my
emotions:
Why am I afraid?
Why am I sad?
Why am I shy to express myself?
Every time I ask myself one of these questions, I don’t
get a clear, straight forward answer; believe me the question will only raise a
set of issues that I used to run away from confronting and dealing with, but
differently from how I would normally react in the past, I have powered up my
heart to deal with issues by analyzing them more deeply, and if there is a need
for grievance I am started the process gladly with the understanding that, this
process is important with my healing and growth.
The more I understand my inner reality, the more my
self-confidence is increasing on a daily basis, because I have become able to
say to myself as if saying to a friend, Anny keep it up this is
interesting!!!
Seeking to know myself well is the foundation of all
positive developments that I am experiencing in my life right now.
I am in love with the “ME”, I am discovering, growth is a process I am glad I have started
the work on myself, because the only way I can bring change around me, is if I change
my perception of the world.
yes being in love with helps you do the self care my mom
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